This article may have been addressed to stay-at-home moms, but I found it a nice boost, as it applies equally well to stay-at-home-dads.
All you have to do is switch the words:
"Hey, [dada]!
Yes, you with the baby in your arms…
I see you, out there, sitting at your table, your desk, or your
kitchen island, and I notice you are a little discouraged. You switched
on the computer a few minutes ago to check your mail and a couple
websites, the most exciting contact you’ll have with the outside world
today, in between your hourly dates with your almost-potty-trained
toddler in the bathroom and picking up Cheerios off the floor of the
kitchen for the umpteenth time. You are disheartened, tired. Maybe you
passed a mirror earlier today and thought to yourself, Where is that super-trim figure I had in college? Didn’t my step used to have a little more bounce? Why am I doing this?
You love your family with ferocity but you are just running out of
steam. Your [wife] is working hard to allow you this privilege of
staying home with your children, but sometimes it doesn’t feel like a
privilege. You may even feel like it would be easier to get an outside
job.
You may feel that you do the same thing over and over, and the days
blur together. You have always held that [parents] should be present in the
home during a child’s early years. You believed it with all your heart
the day you got married and you believe it now. You want to be the best [dad] you can be, but somehow that rings a little hollow at the moment, as
you break up a tussle between two preschoolers, quickly throw in some laundry and get back in the
room with the little ones before someone gets hurt. Is this how it is
supposed to go? You ask. You wonder."
read the rest of it and get inspired.
1/27/2012
I got the blues
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